I just read an interesting article in today’s Journal Gazette. It appears that some parents are using local libraries as free child care. This is just something that had never crossed my mind and I can see how it would be comforting to a parent who is seriously strapped financially to feel that this is a good place the drop their kids off for awhile. I can almost understand their thinking.
While many kids were enjoying a day off from school, Mikeyla spent three hours of her day killing time on a computer at a branch of the Allen County Public Library. Her mom dropped her off there about 10 a.m. and planned to pick her up after she got off work about 1 p.m.
It’s a routine Mikeyla goes through almost every day. After she leaves school in the afternoon, she said, she and a friend are usually dropped off at the library by her friend’s mom.
She’s there for about four hours until her mom picks her up, or she gets a ride home with the same friend’s mom. Mikeyla’s mother said her daughter’s library visits are partly because she is working, but also because Mikeyla loves to read.
The mother is one of many parents in the area and across the country who use libraries essentially as child care until they get home from work. Sending their children to a public place with a number of adults is more comforting than having them stay home alone.
For the kids, you know what? I don’t know of anyplace that is more disciplined for everyone who uses the facility. You just know if you are talking too loud, its totally unacceptable and you will be asked to leave. When a child is forced to remain quiet and behave respectfully towards others, they find something to do. In a library, they are either going to find a good book to read, a quiet game to play or perhaps surf the internet. I would assume the proper filters are in place regarding the internet so that they are not going to get into trouble that way. So, at least a child will be well behaved and be using his noggin.
There’s a boy younger than 10 who comes to the Little Turtle branch every day after school and arrives every Saturday at 10 a.m., branch manager Rosie Stier said. He has money to spend either in the vending machines or at the neighboring Dairy Queen or Arby’s, and he is picked up at 6 p.m. – closing time, Stier said.
I seriously can’t imagine leaving a child under the age of 10 like that on his own every day. But then again, I don’t understand what situation his parents may be in.
Two 13-year-old girls often spend their days off from school, weekends or time after school at a branch library. They said their parents suggest they go to the library while they’re at work.
The Blackhawk Middle School students spent about five hours at the library on Martin Luther King Jr. Day while their parents were at work or running errands.
The same goes for a 14-year-old boy who goes to the library almost every day after school while his mom is at work. He doesn’t mind, though, because many of his friends go to the same branch, and he can also play on a computer, something he doesn’t have at home.
Some Allen County library branches are more prone to being kid-populated than others, specifically those in lower-income areas, said Cheryl Ferverda, community relations and development manager. She said she thinks the Pontiac, Tecumseh, Shawnee and Little Turtle branches have higher rates of unattended children.
For the staff at the library? What a nightmare for them. They know these kids are being left unattended. and they know there is just an unspoken intention that they are to keep an eye on these kids. At the same time, they have their job to do. Their job is not childcare provider.
The library wants to be known as a welcome place for children, but Ferverda thinks parents need to fully understand the situation before they decide to leave their children unattended.
“We just are saying to parents be mindful that your child is in a public building and think about it in this way: Would you just take your child to Glenbrook and drop them off and leave them? If the answer is no, then that’s the way you should look at the library,” Ferverda said.
There have been times when children have been dropped off and their parent forgets what time the library closes, Ferverda said. Library staff won’t leave if there are children waiting, and staff will stay until the parents come.
“We’re using taxpayers’ limited resources to address a situation that … isn’t of our making,” Ferverda said. “It is of somebody else’s making.”
Well, you learn something new everyday. I always say it is cheaper for me to go to the grocery store or to Wal-Mart without my kids, now I know where to drop them while I do that.
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